Blame-Shifting is Hell

2022.01.18 22:10 spot0tea Blame-Shifting is Hell

It's like my husband is living in a parallel universe. He said that he had to get out of our dysfunctional marriage (and away from me--also dysfunctional according to him), as we were arguing every day because I didn't respect his boundary to 'be kind and respectful to one another' by regulating my emotions.
What he cannot seem to understand or admit is that our 'arguments' consisted of me asking him not to watch porn and talk to other women, as he had just returned from a four-month long bender of infidelity and lies, and sleeping in a separate bedroom. I had also recently found evidence that he's a porn and sex addict whose habits had escalated for several years. I think I am traumatized or something. It's hard to explain.
I feel as though I am going crazy. I keep blaming myself... 'if only I hadn't nagged him to go to counseling', etc. It always comes back on me. He hasn't even admitted that he has a problem. We have a young daughter and since he has moved out I no longer allow him to see her unsupervised because some the porn I found is the most depraved and disturbing things that I have ever seen. He has become angry, violent, and short-tempered. I don't know how to make sense of this. Why can't he see that he is wrong?
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2022.01.18 22:10 BatWolfie666 Late night doodle

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2022.01.18 22:10 TastyVictory Mystery box arrived today. I wasn't sure what to expect, but I'm very happy with it!

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2022.01.18 22:10 JosephBrown2000 Without Longhaul Truck Drivers this country stops

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2022.01.18 22:10 No_Process_321 Restaurant servers, how does the commission based payment system compare to receiving straight tips?

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2022.01.18 22:10 QnsConcrete Chinese bakery

Does anyone know of a Chinese-style bakery in the area? I know of several Filipino bakeries, which are good, but slightly different than Chinese. Egg tarts, pork buns, sweet buns, cakes, etc.
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2022.01.18 22:10 alan704carolina Decent local haul

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2022.01.18 22:10 LeeroyM Mourning

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2022.01.18 22:10 TestyCale Which album has no skippable songs?

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2022.01.18 22:10 JTENGEORGIA Suggestion for an updated ranking system.

We all know ranks go from bronze to onyx. How about making onyx 1-6 like the other ranks. So onyx would be 1500mmr thru 1799mmr once you hit 1800 you enter a new rank which could be masters, champion etc that also runs 1-6. (1800mmr thru 2099mmr). Then have one final rank that works like onyx currently does that starts at 2100mmr and goes as high as it needs to.
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2022.01.18 22:10 yowmaru How's the regular Intuos Medium (not Pro) for a beginner?

They're on heavy discount here in Canada and I've been looking for some inexpensive way to get my feet dirty into digital drawing lately.
I'm still in the learning stages (a lot of repetitive studies, mainly lineart and minimal coloring or rendering) so I assume a Pro is not meant for people like me, right?
If you can share the pros and cons that would be lovely, thanks!
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2022.01.18 22:10 dontworryaboutit-1 Vote for Celina Snyder to be Inked Magazine's Cover Girl

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2022.01.18 22:10 No-Woodpecker-529 Just rewatched the Commitment Celebration S6E19..

This was so weird to rewatch! The build up to the party is giving me anxiety!! They are so behind on all aspects of the party planning, especially the dress designer.. it’s two days before a 200 person event and she’s freehand cutting fabric on Meris body..jeez
After all that the dress drama, the designer asks Meri and Robyn if they could find another dress. Robyn pulled something out of her closet and Meri wore a Tinkerbell green dress that was $59 she claims.
The designer made a dress for Christine that was straight out of Romeo and Juliet but it kinda worked for her.
Meanwhile Kody hanging one strand of LED lights from each house to the center of the cul de sac because there was nothing more important to do..
They all take family pictures and Kody starts to get rage because he has to hold a child. He does the creepy serial killer smile and was breathing really heavy like wtf man? It was kinda concerning..
Ceremony had so many acts of symbolism, sand candles, signing the mission statement, and planting the tree! Wtf no wonder the kids were bored.
The whole thing just seemed kinda narcissistic..’hey come celebrate us being a family and now living next door to each other.’
Should out to Mykelti with best outfit award
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2022.01.18 22:10 zach_kraemer Hello from section 331! The powder blue warm ups are looking slick! LFG Stars!

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2022.01.18 22:10 AdventurousChapter27 Ya se la sandwich, bandana.

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2022.01.18 22:10 Ok-Level5942 Mark down your ideology/ideologies because I wanna see this subreddits political stance. This is mine btw.

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2022.01.18 22:10 agreeablethat Hot teacher fucks student

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2022.01.18 22:10 Wongoku How weird is it to connect with someone on LinkedIn when you only have two mutuals in common?

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2022.01.18 22:10 thatdiveguy Info on SAR groups in/around Buncombe County, NC?

There seems to be a lot of SAR groups in and around Buncombe, along with what looks to be some big statewide management of all sar resources. Is anyone familiar with what SAR looks like in that area that's willing to share/talk about it?
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2022.01.18 22:10 Competitive_Cup_745 this is this subreddits national anthem.

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2022.01.18 22:10 Rakezombie Help finding a value on a cobra

Ive been having trouble finding how much my cobra is worth,stumbled upon a cobra the number is CSX 4013 It's a 427 S/C with 7k miles she's a lil dusty but the paint is nearly perfect and everything works and runs if anyone can help me figure out an estimate of it's worth I'd appreciate it
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2022.01.18 22:10 CraigD_California Hybrid Tea Roses [OC]

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2022.01.18 22:10 StudentAlpaca Noticed some holes in my prints so I printed a flat rectangle to see if it persisted after cleaning my screen. Any suggestions as to it's causes/fixes

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2022.01.18 22:10 valleygoat Eating healthy doesn't have to be expensive. People say that as an excuse to continue eating shitty.

That's it. Potatoes, pasta, beans, rice, etc. aren't inherently "unhealthy" foods, and they're cheap as hell.
Chicken is a great meat and is also very cheap.
People use the excuse that eating healthy is expensive as their excuse when what they really mean is they are lazy to make healthy foods.
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2022.01.18 22:10 Nave03 Any examples of times where single combat determined a battle/war?

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